When Are Kids Old Enough for Their Own Responsibilities?

 

Perhaps you already know this: It is never too soon to teach a child responsibility! (OK…maybe give them a few months to learn to use those muscles!) Our culture has become one that dotes on children and doesn’t expect enough of them. Spoiling children takes away their power, erodes self-confidence, and breeds selfishness. We …

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The Present is an Opportunity, Not a Gift

Many people are preoccupied with the present.

How you feel right now is temporary. Pleasure fades, pain passes, exhaustion is replaced with energy – “now” does not matter nearly as much as people seem to think. Skipping a workout or opting for fast food over a well-prepared meal may seem more pleasurable in the moment, …

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Around the Dojang – The Nine Principles of a Black Belt

Ever look around the dojang and wonder at some of the things you see? For instance, the Korean symbols displayed above the mat. They are large and easy to see — obviously important given their prominence — but do you know their meanings?

These are the nine characteristics Black Belt leaders exemplify, and that we …

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It Takes A Village To Raise A Child

Anyone who has raised a child knows the task is enormous, all-encompassing, and often overwhelming. Children used to be raised by extended families, friends, and communities, but the job has become more isolating – particularly in American culture. The time and energy commitment is intense, and parents infamously spend the majority of their child’s youth …

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What “TOMA” Stands For

Welcome to Elite TOMA, the leading provider of traditional martial arts classes for kids and adults in Randolph, NJ. Elite TOMA Martial Arts is much more than a martial arts school. It’s a family-oriented community dedicated to helping you live your best life.

Owner and operator Grand Master Jae Hyeon Jo opened the school in …

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Who is a Black Belt?

At Elite TOMA, students are consistently reminded to strive to be a “Black Belt Leader.” They look to older students and mentors who have achieved that rank for examples of form and technique. Stripes and stars adorn their uniforms as a symbol of progress toward that goal. At each belt test, students who …

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The Elite TOMA Difference

Any good martial arts program teaches students respect and discipline, increases physical fitness, instills confidence, and provides quality instruction. When considering a program, students — or their parents — often seek a positive atmosphere, a friendly vibe, hard-working instructors, and a fun experience. In fact, if you peek into most area schools, these are the …

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